Can Relationships Kill Our Sense of Competence?
Many couples divide responsibilities along traditional gender roles. For this writer, following her divorce, that meant having to relearning the basics.
Divorce
Is This Male “Feminist” Responsible for Robbing Mothers of Custody?
Thanks to founder Warren Farrell, the Men's Rights Movement is having a heyday in the courts when it comes to parental custody battles—which this writer has had to discover the hard way.
How I Went From “Poster Mother” to Pariah
Ruth Fowler's family was catapulted to internet fame after she live-tweeted her home birth. But when her marriage fell apart, all of her new mom friends couldn't flee fast enough.
Did My Best Friend Really Know Me?
For 27 years, the writer had a dutiful relationship with her most devoted friend. Only later did she question who needed who more.
Dear Julie: “My Future Sister-In-Law Has Turned Into a Total Bridezilla”
DAME’s Friendkeeper smooths some familial strife and helps a generous giver get over her guilt.
I Broke Up With My Father
After years of dealing with her father’s fair-weather parenting, the writer did the hardest thing a daughter can do.
Debauchery Is Fun—to Visit
After divorcing a musician, the writer swore off her rock lifestyle. But a week on the decadent Gumball road trip made her realize that having a good time isn’t always so black and white.
Dear Julie: “My Friend’s Horrific Divorce Is Affecting My Family, Help!”
DAME’s Friendkeeper walks a woman through the minefield of a pal’s explosive divorce, and blows the whistle on a grammar grouch.
Dear Julie: “Can I Break My Friend’s Debbie Downer-ism?”
DAME’s Friendkeeper gives advice for halting the cycle of complaint, and about what to do when a friend in need wants more than you can give.
That Time I Asked My Tween If We Could Have Another Dog
Having her boyfriend move in was a big deal for the writer, and an even bigger one for her daughter. Would a foster pup help ease the transition?